{"id":2959,"date":"2017-01-02T14:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-01-02T19:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/realtalkwithmatty.com\/?p=2959"},"modified":"2019-06-02T10:28:00","modified_gmt":"2019-06-02T14:28:00","slug":"you-are-not-a-special-snowflake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/realtalkwithmatty.blog\/?p=2959","title":{"rendered":"#  You are not a special snowflake"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--more--><!--more-->In today\u2019s society, why do so many people seem to have the entitled attitude were they feel like they can say or do anything to you with no repercussions, or no accountability\u00a0for their actions they act like you have to deal with their crap. \u00a0 It\u2019s like you don\u2019t have a choice or a say so, in the matter, everyone else let them get away with it, so you suppose to fall in line like everyone else does. People today are as crazy as cat shit, they will lie cheat and steal from you, will try to manipulate you, then expect you to support them when they need it, then act like nothing ever happened.<\/p>\n<p>They \u00a0Carrie it like you are obligated to them and you should be there \u00a0at their beckon call for their every whim,( smh ) people are funny as hell when it comes to you and your problems \u00a0they have no time for you they\u2019ll \u00a0get to you when they feel like getting to you, but let them have \u00a0some type of crisis and it&#8217;s helped me, sound the alarm, all hands on deck, call in the National Guard, \u00a0you have to stop everything that you are doing to help them. \u00a0 Why is people mindset so one-sided now days It\u2019s all about them, \u00a0when you\u2019re in any relationship it suppose to be a give and take on both side, not just one way and if you are in one of those situations you might want to rethink your relationship what ever type of \u00a0relationship you&#8217;re in family, friends, couples, co-workers it\u2019s shouldn\u2019t matter as long as it is a mutual respect and understanding theirs no such thing as 50\/50 in a relationship one person will always do more than the other person but the percentage shouldn\u2019t be 90\/3 \u00a0neither, well not in a healthy relationship .<\/p>\n<p>Why are some people mindset so one-sided nowadays it&#8217;s all about them they don\u2019t give a damn about your feeling or your well-being it\u2019s all about what you can do for them and what they can get from you. \u00a0 Sometimes in life, we go along to get along not trying to cause friction, doing this all the time will have people walking all over you like a welcome mat.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a New year and for some a new beginning, and to those one-sided people, that for some strange reason think you have to deal with their crap I have a message for you.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes when you are dealing with people foolishness you have to do what I do look them straight in their eyes and tell them they didn\u2019t break the mold when you were born no one is going to throw rose petals at your feet man, you are not \u00a0the Crown Prince of \u00a0Zamunda Akeem and I\u2019m dam sure not Semmi\u00a0, You are not a Special Snowflake \u00a0so stop thinking that you are.(smh bless your heart)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":85067509,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"googlesitekit_rrm_CAowvvbdCw:productID":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"{title}\n\n{excerpt}\n\n{url}","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[682501975],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-realtalkwithmatty-com"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.8 - 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