Have some of the lesson we were taught as kids become out dated?
Remember back in the day when your parents would say look out for your brother sister etc when I’m gone. Now looking out for someone else isn’t necessarily a bad thing just as long as you are not neglecting our own needs just like when you are on a plane and something happens with the cabin pressure the first thing the say is put your oxygen mask on you first the same rules apply in every day life you can’t help someone if you’re not at your very best and
when it comes to your mental state who will look out for your well being better than you. Always make yourself the first priority before your help others.