Too many people close them selves off to the world and vow never to love again all because they was hurt before and don’t want go through the pain of it again but the truth of the matter is its just a part of life that we all had been through use this time to reflect back on the situation and not to disregard your part of the relationship.
You have to learn from the life experience acknowledge the mistakes that you both made in the relationship and grow from it but sometimes that’s easier said than done especially when we want someone to take the fall for what went wrong with the break up everybody but ourselves
To move forward with the healing process you have to be honest with yourself and accept your part in the relationship. Too many times people become bitter and angry after the relationship has ended and we want to blame our ex for everything that went wrong when in fact there’s plenty of blame to go around.
Both of you had a part in the break up and that’s where most problems lie most people won’t admit to it and instead of facing the problem head-on your passing the blame to someone else now you blaming keisha for something that tiffany and donna did when in fact all of this started with kim at least that’s what you’re telling yourself in your mind.
Until you start taking responsibility for your actions you will continue to have the same issues and problems going into your next relationship all because you haven’t dealt with your part. For growth to occur you have learn to take responsibility for your actions.
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So true. It’s also about facing the fear and pain instead of avoiding them. Sure, it might suck, and you definitely don’t want things to repeat, but the pain is there to teach you something, to turn you into a better person. You wouldn’t change if it didn’t hurt. Thanks for this post!
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I agree with you 100% And thank you for the comment I appreciate it